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We take a closer at look at five expensive financial mistakes couples make and how to avoid them.
This article isn’t personal advice. If you’re not sure whether an investment is right for you please seek advice. If you choose to invest the value of your investment will rise and fall, so you could get back less than you put in.
It was correct at the time of publishing. Our views and any references to tax, investment and pension rules may have changed since then.
You can’t put a price on love – or at least that’s what they say.
But whether it’s extra spending on gifts and weddings, or the fallout that can come from separation, the costs can all add up. Having frank and open conversations about your finances now can help to avoid costly mistakes later on.
There might be more romantic ways to spend Valentine’s Day, but getting to the bottom of your financial goals together might be one of the most rewarding in the long term.
We take a closer look at five costly mistakes couples make, and how to avoid them.
This article isn’t personal advice. If you’re not sure something is right for you, please speak to a financial adviser.
No matter what stage you’re at in your relationship, if your financial future is tied together, you need to be able to talk to each other about money. It might seem awkward to bring up, but it could save you a lot of heartache later.
If you’re living together, you’ve probably worked out a joint budget or bank account to at least make sure the bills are paid. You could even have joint savings goals.
By talking though your financial challenges together, it could help you both keep more on top of them and even reach your goals sooner. If you think that could be a tricky subject, download our guide for tips on how to get the conversation started.
Read our guide for practical tips on talking to your partner about money and getting a plan in place for the future.
Our research found that only 41% of couples take joint responsibility for long-term financial planning. Taking a back seat can be tempting if your partner is more interested in finances, or has more to invest, but it’s a risky strategy.
With only one of you at the helm, intentionally or not, your needs and goals can get side-lined as things are only being viewed from the other person’s perspective. If your partner were to pass away, or you separated, you’d be thrown in at the deep end during what would be an already difficult time.
If you leave your finances up to your partner, it’s time to get involved. You could think about dividing up the financial tasks between you. If this doesn’t work for you, at least make sure you know what your partner is doing and check in every so often.
Marriage brings some brilliant tax planning opportunities. When you’re married, you can share assets so you can both make the most of tax allowances on things like dividends, capital gains and savings. And if one of you pays tax at a lower rate (or is a non-taxpayer), gifting assets to your spouse can reduce how much income tax you pay.
While it’s smart to share assets purely on a tax basis, think about what would happen in the event of a break up. Gifts to your spouse are irrevocable, so you’ll have no claim over them if things go sour or you separate.
For more useful information about how much you can earn before tax, including income tax allowances and bands, go to our tax facts hub.
Tax rules are complicated, can change and any benefits will depend on your circumstances. If you’re not sure, speak to a tax specialist.
Don’t forget the marriage allowance either. If one of you is a non-taxpayer, and the other a basic rate taxpayer, the non-taxpayer can transfer up to 10% of their personal allowance (£12,500 for the 2020/21 tax year) to the other.
As an example, let’s say you’re a non-tax payer earning £10,000 and your spouse is a basic-rate tax payer earning £20,000. If you claim the marriage allowance you could transfer £1,250 of your personal allowance to your spouse. Your personal allowance becomes £11,250 and your spouse gets a ‘tax credit’ on £1,250 of their taxable income.
This means your spouse will only pay tax on £6,250. As a couple you benefit, because you’d only pay income tax on £6,250 rather than £7,500, which saves you £250.
More on the marriage allowance
Hindsight is a wonderful thing. While we might start relationships hoping they’ll last, things don’t always work out. Divorce can be an expensive and messy business, so it’s important you protect yourself.
It could be worth considering a pre-nuptial agreement before tying the knot. They aren’t currently legally binding, but they’ll normally be taken into account by the judge and could be upheld in court.
You might want an emergency savings fund in your own name too, just in case.
If you’re living together without getting married, you’ll have very few rights, so think about how assets are legally owned between you. This means that if you do split, you’ll have legal ownership to protect your rights.
It doesn’t matter how old you are, all couples need to think about what will happen when one of them dies. Putting this off could make a difficult situation even worse for your loved ones.
You could consider making sure you:
If you’re an HL client, you can update your HL SIPP nominations through your online account in ‘account settings’, or send us an expression of wish form. Your nomination isn’t legally binding, but it lets us know your wishes for when you pass away, which must be taken into account.
This article isn’t personal advice. If you’re not sure whether an investment is right for you please seek advice. If you choose to invest the value of your investment will rise and fall, so you could get back less than you put in.
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